Jul
20
Rage Against the Machine
Filed Under cheating?, dumping, men in self imposed convents, over excited male, playahs, porn love, too many people in the bedroom | Leave a Comment
Elizabeth from Iowa: I caught my boyfriend taking photos of his ah hem whilst on the computer. It turns out that he has been chatting to random ladies for quite sometime. Should I dump him?
He Says: Yes. Getting it on with random women on the Internet is creepy and weird. Who knows what else he’s up to? You could end up with some pretty ugly diseases. Don’t let that happen.
She Says: Yes! What in the world is he doing? It sounds like he’s got a few things to sort out… like sense of self-respect. Any man who willingly exposes himself to the Internet (which is kind of like putting his dick out on national television) needs a head check. You’re wasting your time hanging out with this one.
Jul
8
The Lapdancer’s Lair
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Helen asks: What would you do if you found out your boyfriend received lap dances at a strip club whilst you were out of town. Would that be considered cheating?
He Says: A woman friend of mine used to say, ‘it doesn’t matter where you get your appetite from as long as you eat at home.’ Men are hard-wired by millions of years of evolution to be attracted to varieties of women, while women are designed to love and rear children. At least that’s what I read somewhere. Why not give your man a lap dance from time to time? Make sure he fills your little thong with $20s though!!
She Says: Um yes. That would be considered cheating. If there is nakedness.. the nakedness of another woman… in his lap… then that’s cheating. How often do you go out of town? Is this a frequent thing? Does he tell you about it? LoveShack has a great discussion on this. And You Tube provides some eye-opening videos .
Jun
3
Three’s A Crowd
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Annabel from Canada: I’m considering having a threesome with my husband. Bad idea?
He Says: This all depends on how your husband feels about it. Gingerly approach the topic, by casually saying something like how cute you think so-and-so is. Most straight guys would absolutely be opposed to having another man in bed, but would probably like having you and another woman. On the other hand, it could backfire: he could use it as an excuse to dump you, saying you’re not interested. Be careful.
She Says: TERRIBLE IDEA unless you like girls or he likes boys. Whenever you do something like this one of three things will happen. 1. He will want it for the rest of your life. You may live a long time. Do not forget this. This may include jealousy for you or for him, addiction to sex with two people or the feeling of inadequacy in the bedroom. 2. He hates it. You love it. Or Vice versa. This scenario is nothing but embarrassing. There’s judgment going on both sides. He may think ‘She is so into it…maybe she’s really a lesbian’. Or she may think ‘He is so into her and she thinks he’s a total loser. This is humiliating.’ 3. You’re both bored. This is really the best case in my opinion… but if you’re both against a threesome then why do it in the first place? But in case you do, watch the video above first and read these tips on how to have one!