Aug
11
Honey Came In and She Caught Me Red-Handed
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Linda Asks: I found out my current male lover occasionally wears a bra. He doesn’t stuff it but I still find it a little disturbing. Do you think I could convince him to stop wearing one?
He Says: WTF?? He wears a bra occasionally? This boy has a problem, stuffing or not. Perhaps he fantasizes about being a woman, a Victoria’s Secret model or is a closet transvestite. Or maybe he has a fetish for women’s’ clothes. Whatever the case, he should seek professional treatment or you may find yourself in the bottom of a pit in his basement, ala Silence of the Lambs…
She Says: Your question made me laugh but not in a good way. Does he do this at a specific time of day? What is his reasoning? Regardless, it’s not good. No corn-husking tractor-driving weight-lifting man I know wears a bra. It sounds like you may need to do a little sleuthing around to figure out what’s up with his private life. Or drop him like a bad habit!
Jul
20
Rage Against the Machine
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Elizabeth from Iowa: I caught my boyfriend taking photos of his ah hem whilst on the computer. It turns out that he has been chatting to random ladies for quite sometime. Should I dump him?
He Says: Yes. Getting it on with random women on the Internet is creepy and weird. Who knows what else he’s up to? You could end up with some pretty ugly diseases. Don’t let that happen.
She Says: Yes! What in the world is he doing? It sounds like he’s got a few things to sort out… like sense of self-respect. Any man who willingly exposes himself to the Internet (which is kind of like putting his dick out on national television) needs a head check. You’re wasting your time hanging out with this one.
Jul
9
An Unforgettable Evening…. Then This Happened
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Gail asks: I went on a lovely date with a really wonderful man last week. Everything was perfect until we started passionately kissing and he had a little accident. Should I call him back? I felt so embarrassed for him…
He Says: Whoa. Naturally I would like to hear more details about this, like how adroitly he handled this embarrassing incident, which reflects how confident he is in his skin and at the dating game. He could have some sort of medical issue that could be explained and laughed off. Or it could be a one-off over the pressure of seeming perfect on an early date (and there is a lot of pressure these days!!). If he is a decent guy, you may want to continue the pursuit. Like I have said, no man is perfect and bodies can be a drag sometimes. Don’t forget, you ladies can have a host of embarrassing issues that can also interfere with your ravishingness on occasion. Don’t leave another scarred victim on the dating scene – give the man a call – then dump him if it happens again!
She Says: He will either be mortified or used to it. I’m sure he knows it is a problem. But no. Don’t call him. He will either lose interest in you (he’s used to it) or he will think you’re pity calling him making him avoid calling you back (mortified). But if you’re calling him back I would say yes please do! Everyone needs a second chance… especially if you had a wonderful time with him! These issues are more common than you think!