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Linda Asks: I found out my current male lover occasionally wears a bra. He doesn’t stuff it but I still find it a little disturbing. Do you think I could convince him to stop wearing one?

He Says: WTF?? He wears a bra occasionally? This boy has a problem, stuffing or not. Perhaps he fantasizes about being a woman, a Victoria’s Secret model or is a closet transvestite. Or maybe he has a fetish for women’s’ clothes. Whatever the case, he should seek professional treatment or you may find yourself in the bottom of a pit in his basement, ala Silence of the Lambs… 

thumbnailShe Says: Your question made me laugh but not in a good way. Does he do this at a specific time of day? What is his reasoning? Regardless, it’s not good. No corn-husking tractor-driving weight-lifting man I know wears a bra. It sounds like you may need to do a little sleuthing around to figure out what’s up with his private life. Or drop him like a bad habit!

Jenny in Los Angeles!: I am concerned that my boyfriend of 6 months may be gay. Is there anything I should watch out for in particular?

He Says: This kind of question always baffles me. In this day and age, it’s OK to be gay. Why would he be going out with you if he wanted to be with men?  In New York, all single women seem to be concerned that their boyfriend might be gay. This reflects female insecurity more than anything else. Give it a rest. That said, you can tell a lot by a man’s friends. Are they mostly gay? That’s a big indicator!   

She Says: I guess the first question is what makes you think he’s gay? If your man comes home and he looks a lot like a girl… that might be a sign. If he checks out men and hates all your girlfriends… that might be a sign. But many times, it’s just too hard to tell. What’s missing in your relationship? Does he not want to have sex? That might just be due to stress at work! I guess I need a little more information. What do the readers think?