Jul
22
She’s Not the Cheatin Kind
Filed Under cheating?, crazy women, dumping
Jackie from Ohio asks: I was very drunk one night a slept with my best male friend. Should I tell my boyfriend? I am on the fence about it.
He Says: Ahh that demon liquor! It makes you do all kinds of things that of course you wouldn’t THINK of doing while sober, ahem. Drunk or not, you are obviously attracted to your best male friend and he probably secretly has had the hots for you, as I do for some of my female friends (good thing this is anonymous). The question you should be asking is not “Should I confess” but “What is it about my bf that caused me to spread my wings and fly?” He’s obviously not doing it for you.
She Says: Hopefully you weren’t a home-wrecker this time around but in the future I’d refrain from doing drunk ‘accidental’ things. Astonishingly, I too have been wasted before and I too have been around a male best friend. Somehow I refrained from sleeping with him. You clearly like your friend and are not really into your boyfriend. I wouldn’t tell your boyfriend what you did if you want to keep this hurt train chugging along but the nice thing to do would probably be to love him and leave him… and maybe move on to your best friend.
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