Jun
9
Serious Words for Serious Birds
Filed Under crazy women
Judith lives in Seattle: I’ve been dating several men for the past few months, but now want to move forward exclusively with one. How do I let the rest know in a way that is clear but nice, and maybe even leaves the door open in case Mr. Right turns out not to be?
She Says: Do not stop dating until ‘Mr. Right’ proposes exclusivity. You cannot propose exclusivity. That’s boring and scary. I wouldn’t worry about it and just have fun! If he has asked you to be his girl then just avoid the other guys. They will get the hint without you having to explain that they’re not the one!
He Says: I hate to break the news here, but THERE IS NO MR. RIGHT!! Don’t waste your 20s and 30s tasting all of Heinz 57 Varieties!! Noone is perfect. We all have warts. Mr. Right is only Mr. Right because you make him so. Life is about choices. Move forward with your man and be nice to the others. It’s a rough world out there and what goes around comes around. No man wants to be number 2 on your wish list and if he finds out that you want him waiting in the wings, he’s history, unless he has no self esteem in which case you don’t want him anyway!
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