Jun
5
Monster In Law
Filed Under mothers
Cary from Edinburgh!: My boyfriend’s parents hate me. I snuck into by boyfriend’s room when I visited his parents house for the first time and they found a used condom the next morning. I am always very courteous when I’m around them but I feel like my relationship is doomed. How can I rectify it?
She Says: Generally the parent to concentrate on (as the girlfriend) is the mother. And Mothers like presents. Mothers also like what’s best for their son. So do some domestic things around her. Make a bouquet of flowers for the table, set the table, make the bed, do the dishes… show that you’ll take care of her little man in the long run. She’ll change her tune soon enough.
He Says: This is a tough one. If they are real conservative, they may take a long time to get over it. But you’re not going out with his parents, you’re going out with him. Be tolerant. Give them time to get over it. Let your boyfriend defend you to them. If he loves you, he will.
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