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Lonely in Midtown: My problem is that I work so hard I never have time to date. First, how do I meet women? do you have experience with websites such as Match.com? Secondly because of my job and working so hard I have not had sex in almost three years. Is that a difficult issue to discuss with possible dates?
She Says: Well sir. You need to get out of the office. There are several ways to meet women. Yes I would encourage you to try Match.com or sites like it (eharmony, plenty of fish, and nerve are all popular). They are a sure fire way to meet a lady to love. Next up, meander into a few bars. Women in New York do like to be hit on so start dishing out a few ‘come-hither’ looks! Be more socially active through groups online. Hit up Facebook or Yahoo Groups to meet people with similar interests. As far as your new found celibacy is concerned…. Women like confidence and you telling them that you can’t get laid won’t help anything. Some things are better left unsaid!
He Says: On-line dating is great for people stuck in offices and too burned out to get out much. Check em out. Match.com, OKCupid, Craigslist, Yahoo Personals and so on. There are lots of women looking! Take some nice pix of yourself, paint a cool verbal portrait and start COMMUNICATING with women. And don’t be needy or a wuss, and NEVER say you haven’t had sex for years. What’s the point? My best advice – read some dating books like “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-Up Artists” and others, which have some great nuggets. Don’t waste time if you don’t get immediate results – move on to the next woman, and the next. You need to get in the game!
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